7 Surefire Signs You’re Being a Wimpy Woman

Our culture portrays a “strong” and powerful woman as one who embraces her independence from men, throws away her virginity, explores sexual diversity, and places her family second behind her career.

So many Christian woman, including me, have bought into many of the lies of what a “strong” woman looks like. One of my favorite speakers and authors, Mary Kassian, wisely points out that the Bible’s version of a strong woman looks nothing like the world’s (this post is an adaptation of her original message).

In fact, most of what our culture upholds as “strong” the Bible calls wimpy and weak!

The truth is, it takes a much stronger woman to stand up against sin than it does to give in to sin.

The Bible calls us, as Christian woman, to have backbones of steel and hearts of fire that fight for His truth and wage war against sin.

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Our culture needs to see more of God’s version of a strong woman.

Would you consider yourself a strong woman according to the culture or a strong woman according to the Bible?

Here’s the test! Read the following 7 surefire signs of a wimpy woman and see how you measure up:

1.  She allows creeps to come into her life.

Now these aren’t just “creeps” as in creepy guys. They’re any type of small influence or tiny sin that slowly worms its way into your life. Mary Kassian pointed out that sin doesn’t advance by leaps and bounds, it advances by small creeps. It slowly creeps into your life with a small compromise here, a small bending of the Scriptures there.

A weak woman blindly allows these small creeps to come in. A wise woman knows that the BIG sins usually don’t mess up her life…it’s the dozens of small creeps that take her down the wrong path.

2.  She fails to guard her mind.

Your victory over sin will be won or lost in the battle of your mind. Entertaining that first sinful thought that pops into your head is your first step in the wrong direction. If you spend your time filling your mind with lies and sinful content, you will become a very weak woman spiritually. A strong woman fights the battle in her mind and carefully guards what she puts into her head.

3.  She lets things pile up.

Old and unresolved sins make you susceptible to new sins. To be blunt, sin makes you stupid. The more sin you hide and keep hidden in your past, the more vulnerable you are to new sins. A weak woman hides her sin and allows the devil to have a strong foothold in her life. A strong and wise woman listens to James 5:16a which says, “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed.”

4.  She makes bad choices.

If you’re stuck in sin, you will begin to shun wise counsel. You won’t be open to hearing godly counsel from your parents or friends. A weak woman makes bad choices and loses her ability to even see how unwise they are. Have you ever had a friend who made a really bad choice, even after you warned her against it? That’s a sign of piled up sins and a weak spiritual backbone.

5.  She is governed by her emotions.

Our culture says, “Follow your heart! Do what feels good.” That advice couldn’t be further from the truth. A weak woman allows her emotions and feelings to drive her mind and dictate her path in life. She is unstable and overly emotional. A strong woman uses her mind to drive her emotions and feelings in the direction of truth, regardless of whether it “feels” good or not.

6. She hides behind a religious mask.

Have you ever known a woman who attends church on a weekly basis, but then lives just like the world the rest of the week? That’s a sign of a weak woman. The Bible calls her a hearer of the Word but not a doer of the Word (James 1:22). She hears the truth in church, but doesn’t allow it to transform her life. She calls herself a “Christian” but does nothing to strengthen her relationship with Christ and grow in godliness.

7. She doesn’t view her sin nature as a problem.

The truth is, we’re ALL weak women because of our sin nature. The only reason we’re able to conquer sin is because Jesus conquered its power when He died on the cross. It’s only because of Christ living in us that we’re able to say no to sin and be victorious over it. A strong woman realizes where her strength comes from. A weak woman doesn’t understand the power of sin and tries to fight the battles in her own strength.

So there you go!

There are the 7 habits of a weak woman. How did you measure up? Are you falling prey to any one of those habits and becoming weak and wimpy?

I was personally challenged by that list and realized how easily I give in to sin. I was reminded by Mary Kassian that God is calling all Christian women to be strong in Him! Our world desperately needs to see Christian women who have a backbone and are willing to say no to evil and yes to righteousness.

That is the true definition of a strong woman.

Take some time to pray about the list from above and ask God to show you areas of weakness in your own life. If He does, humble yourself and repent of those sins and replace old sinful habits with new God-honoring habits.

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They are free of habitual sin, and women whose lives are driven and directed by God’s truth.

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