Friendship Archives - More to Be

Cultivating Healthy Friendships and Wise Boundaries {For Our Tweens & Teens}

How do you know if a friendship is healthy or on the brink of dysfunction? And how do you know…
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Drawing Together at the Well

Have you noticed how authentic friendships don’t just happen, but they have to be intentionally and sacrificially pursued? I’ve had…
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When the Loneliness Becomes Overwhelming

Friendship· Motherhood

I walked into the room and saw women standing in small groups. They laughed, comparing notes about their summers. I…
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The Secret to Real Mom Community

Friendship· Motherhood

In a Pinterest-perfect, Facebook-driven world, being real and honest about our lives doesn’t seem very appealing. Without transparency and openness,…
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Do You Want a Friend?

In the children’s classic Charlotte’s Web, Wilbur the pig experiences an emotion that is all too familiar to some. A…
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{download} You Are Already Enough

Friendship· Mentoring

Do you struggle with feeling like you’re never enough? Do you feel like you’re the one that doesn’t ever fit…
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Real Answers: What are different ways to show love?

Friendship· Love· Real Questions, Real Answers for Teen Girls· Share with Teen Girls

Real Question: What are some different ways to show love? A Twenty-Something’s Perspective . . . Courtney’s answer: There…
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Conflict, Boundaries, and Learning to Find Balance in Friendships

Friendship· Mentoring· Share with Teen Girls

When a friendship goes bad… Lindsey sat in the cafeteria expecting to have a normal lunch time with her favorite…
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When You Feel Left Out with Your Friends

Friendship· Real Questions, Real Answers for Teen Girls

Recently a young reader asked this question: What do you do if you always feel out-of-place when you’re with your…
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5 Ways to Become a True Friend

Friendship· Share with Teen Girls

We are taught by the world that in order to make friends, we need to find people who share…
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When Someone You Love Hurts You

Dating & Relationships· Friendship· Living Out Our Faith· Marriage· Share with Teen Girls

It can feel like a punch to your stomach. Your heart breaks into what seems like a thousand little pieces. …
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Elisa is the Best Trainer

Elisa is the best group leader/trainer I have ever had online! She is there for me, sharing her experiences, encouraging... READ MORE

2017-06-05T12:59:03+00:00

Elisa is the best group leader/trainer I have ever had online! She is there for me, sharing her experiences, encouraging me, and most of all, continually reminding me it is about HIM through me! ~ Trisha Goddard

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/best-group-leadertrainer/

Life Coaching Has Helped Me

God used Lisa to help me recognize the God-given strengths that I have as well as the truth of God’s... READ MORE

2017-06-05T13:00:29+00:00

God used Lisa to help me recognize the God-given strengths that I have as well as the truth of God’s promises to me. Life coaching with Lisa has helped me to be more intentional and purposeful in my spiritual walk, social life, and career decisions. ~ Kathyrn M.

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/life-coaching-helped/

Growing Through Coach Training

Lisa was an AMAZING guide on this journey of becoming a trained Life Coach! She kept me encouraged and really... READ MORE

2017-06-05T13:01:13+00:00

Lisa was an AMAZING guide on this journey of becoming a trained Life Coach! She kept me encouraged and really made this a process of growing for me. I will forever treasure this experience! ~ Rose

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/growing-coach-training/

Relational Coach Training

What I loved most about the taking the life coaching course through Elisa is that she is so relational. I... READ MORE

2017-06-05T13:02:05+00:00

What I loved most about the taking the life coaching course through Elisa is that she is so relational. I felt like I could ask her anything, she always took time to give wisdom-filed feedback, and she shared from her own personal experiences which was so powerful. ~ Charissa

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/relational-training/

Elisa’s Signature Grace-Filled Approach

Elisa Pulliam is the coach I always wish I had. In her book Meet the New You, she uses her... READ MORE

2017-06-08T11:51:08+00:00

Elisa Pulliam is the coach I always wish I had. In her book Meet the New You, she uses her signature grace-filled and honest approach to help you uncover the person you were created to be. If you are ready for a change in direction or simply want to refresh your heart, walk through the pages of this book with Elisa. You will be so glad you did.” ~ Stacy Thacker, co-author of Hope for the Weary Mom

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/signature-grace-filled-approach/

Elisa is Full of Encouragement

I was so blessed by Elisa's speaking at Raising Generations Today. I was all the way in the back on the... READ MORE

2017-06-08T11:52:35+00:00

I was so blessed by Elisa's speaking at Raising Generations Today. I was all the way in the back on the floor of her tweens and teens — thank Elisa for your conviction and encouragement! ~ Sarah

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/full-of-encouragement/

Elisa Touches All Walks of Life

I have received numerous positive feedback regarding the Ladies Luncheon and some thought Elisa teaches a local bible study and wanted to know... READ MORE

2017-06-08T11:55:09+00:00

I have received numerous positive feedback regarding the Ladies Luncheon and some thought Elisa teaches a local bible study and wanted to know where they could sign up. Others were so deeply moved. So many, were touched and they were from all walks of life (young, old, new believer, non-believer, mature believer). ~ Melodie, Luncheon Coordinator

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/touching-walks-life/

Meet the New You is Timeless and Powerful

Meet the New You is so well written, so practical, so helpful. You have created something so timeless and powerful. I am... READ MORE

2017-06-12T16:09:18+00:00

Meet the New You is so well written, so practical, so helpful. You have created something so timeless and powerful. I am inspired now to refresh my own bible study time with the approach you suggest, and I am going to hang up your "Learn to Listen Well" to use with my family. Your work and gift into the world is so needed, and the quality and heart of what you put out through your ministry is truly beautiful in a way only that which has been touched by God can be. To have been mentored by you through your book was just what I needed at this time in my life. ~ Nicole G.

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/timeless-and-powerful/

Elisa is Full of Wisdom and a Fresh Perspective

I marvel at Lisa’s wisdom and insights. She has an uncanny ability to see a situation with a fresh perspective.... READ MORE

2017-08-04T11:40:10+00:00

I marvel at Lisa’s wisdom and insights. She has an uncanny ability to see a situation with a fresh perspective. - Denise Hughes, Deeper Waters Ministry

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/marvel-lisas-wisdom/

Elisa’s “Real Deal About Dating” Workshop was Excellent!

The Real Deal About Dating workshop was excellent! I took notes, which I reflect on, and have the Ephesians 5:10 card on... READ MORE

2017-08-14T08:54:07+00:00

The Real Deal About Dating workshop was excellent! I took notes, which I reflect on, and have the Ephesians 5:10 card on my dresser. Thank you for doing what you do by reaching out and sharing your life and faith, which is enriching others. ~ Barb

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/real-deal-dating-workshop-excellent/

Meet the New You is a Keeper

Meet the New You is truly a keeper! I often read books and then pass them on or donate them,... READ MORE

2017-09-28T07:45:32+00:00

Meet the New You is truly a keeper! I often read books and then pass them on or donate them, but not this one. This one is staying. I love it and I am planning on reading it again! It is such a blessing to me! - Debra

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/this-one-is-a-keeper/

Elisa’s Stories Capture the Power and Grace of God

The entire Embrace Retreat weekend was simply wonderful. Elisa's stories were especially unbelievable whether difficult or inspiring. She blew us all way on how... READ MORE

2017-10-09T13:58:04+00:00

The entire Embrace Retreat weekend was simply wonderful. Elisa's stories were especially unbelievable whether difficult or inspiring. She blew us all way on how the power and grace of God is at work in her, and how He is using Elisa to heal, restore, and strengthen others in their walk with the Lord! ~ Kim S.

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/unbelievable-stories-power-grace-god/

Equipping You to Be the Person God Made You to Be

Elisa is the wise, indefatigable friend you wished lived right next door. The friend who loves God. The friend who... READ MORE

2017-09-18T08:34:20+00:00

Elisa is the wise, indefatigable friend you wished lived right next door. The friend who loves God. The friend who mentors and creates and serves. The friend whose favorite thing to do is work alongside Jesus. The friend who does all she can to equip you to be the person God made you to be. ~ Jennifer Camp

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/equipping-person-god-made/

Impact through Coaching Sessions

Elisa has had such an impact on my life. Helping me work through a tough season and find direction has... READ MORE

2017-10-09T14:03:06+00:00

Elisa has had such an impact on my life. Helping me work through a tough season and find direction has been so life-giving. So much peace has come from our coaching sessions! ~ Paula P.

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/impact-coaching-sessions/

Meet the New You is a Goldmine of Wisdom

Meet the New You is a great concept and well executed! It is a goldmine of sweet, measured wisdom and... READ MORE

2017-10-13T09:31:08+00:00

Meet the New You is a great concept and well executed! It is a goldmine of sweet, measured wisdom and actual exercises to actually change your life. It's a personal and practical guide to help you take steps forward. ~ Katie Bennett

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/wisdom/

Life Coach Training and More

Elisa did a beautiful job with instructing my ministry team (yes, we did the course together) on the principles of... READ MORE

2017-10-20T17:06:47+00:00

Elisa did a beautiful job with instructing my ministry team (yes, we did the course together) on the principles of coaching. And she gave us so much more than just content, as she shared life lessons to help us gain a deeper understanding regarding the impact we were going to have on our clients. I learned a lot about myself as those lessons drew me closer to God. If you're on the fence, I encourage you to jump fully in. You will not regret it for a moment. ~ Cherie Zack, Certified Biblical Counselor and Life Coach

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/gave-us-much/

A Gift to Organizationally Challenged Writers

What a gift Elisa is to us organizationally challenged writers! I am so grateful for her, her expertise, her wisdom,... READ MORE

2017-12-11T10:07:21+00:00

What a gift Elisa is to us organizationally challenged writers! I am so grateful for her, her expertise, her wisdom, her guidance, and her thoughtful ability to help me gain clarity for my message. I highly recommend her as a writing coach! ~ Sarah Mae, coauthor of Desperate: Hope for the Mom Who Needs to Breathe

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/gift-organizationally-challenged-writers/

Riveting Testimony

We invited Lisa to be the featured speaker for a large group of women at our Christmas brunch. Her message... READ MORE

2018-01-08T13:46:31+00:00

We invited Lisa to be the featured speaker for a large group of women at our Christmas brunch. Her message was spot-on. The women were riveted by her testimony and taken in as she opened the Word of God. Lisa came to speak, but in every way, she really came to serve. - Mary O'Connor, Island Christian Church

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/riveting-testimony/

Youth Retreat Speaker that Connects

It was the shot in the arm I needed and I had never heard so much discussion come from our... READ MORE

2018-01-16T08:42:17+00:00

It was the shot in the arm I needed and I had never heard so much discussion come from our students after listening to a speaker. Elisa really got through to them. - Lydia, Chaperone Elisa was open-handed and serving God through serving the students (and adults). - Tom, Retreat Coordinator Great word delivered each session! - Leslie, Chaperone My boys had a great time and really appreciated Elisa's talks, each having their own “moments.” - Dana, Mom

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/youth-retreat-speaker/

Writer Coaching Made ALL the Difference

Elisa Pulliam helped me accomplish so much through the one-to-one writer coaching! In five weeks (which included holidays), we refined my purpose... READ MORE

2018-01-19T20:41:00+00:00

Elisa Pulliam helped me accomplish so much through the one-to-one writer coaching! In five weeks (which included holidays), we refined my purpose and direction for key projects, such as setting up a subscriber list, adding a lead magnet to my blog, releasing a 59-page ebook, and enter a writing competition for Mount Hermon Writers Conference, which I won. I'm so grateful for the encouragement. It was worth the investment. - Deborah Beddoe, Enduring & After

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/writer-coaching-made-difference/

Take Your Mom Hat Off with Coach Training

I felt so blessed to have the tools in my hands to coach my 21-year-old son. I know that he... READ MORE

2018-05-09T13:32:52+00:00

I felt so blessed to have the tools in my hands to coach my 21-year-old son. I know that he walked away from the convo with much more clarity and some action steps he was going to take, and didn’t feel judged by me. It was also great to assure him that I had intentionally taken off my “Mom Hat” and was listening, reflecting back and asking questions to help him get from where he was to where he wants to go, and that it was about his dreams and desires, (not mine). At the end of the conversation, my son thanked me, and I thank God for His leading and guidance and for the newly learned skills and tools I have already acquired through the life coach training course. - Beth

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/mom-hat-coach-training/

Elisa Helped Me Find Direction

If you’re really having trouble making decisions or determining where you should be spending your time, a life coach might... READ MORE

2018-05-09T13:42:47+00:00

If you’re really having trouble making decisions or determining where you should be spending your time, a life coach might be a good option to help you find balance and direction. I’ve worked with Elisa Pulliam and I’ve been so blessed by her guidance and encouragement. ~ Esther Littlefield, Speaker and Writer at EstherLittlefield.com, and Owner of Morningstar Media Services

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/direction/

Not Many Resources Like Yours

I am so blessed and encouraged and convicted as a friend and I are working thru Brave Together and Impact... READ MORE

2018-07-13T14:22:24+00:00

I am so blessed and encouraged and convicted as a friend and I are working thru Brave Together and Impact Together as we are sponsors in our church high school group for the last 10 years, young married, and young mom mentoring! There are not many resources that feed and flourish the way your studies have for me. Coming alongside in the daily has been my way but often hasn’t felt like an approved method although it has proved fruitful! Thank you for your work, your heart and your vulnerable authenticity. ~ Jana A.

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/not-many-resources-like/

A Picture of Hope

I loved how you tied in your personal story and the verses you pulled from scripture as you spoke to... READ MORE

2018-07-13T14:27:06+00:00

I loved how you tied in your personal story and the verses you pulled from scripture as you spoke to our Young Lives group. I've had a chance to talk to a few of the girls since and they all have shared with me that they enjoyed hearing you speak and especially how you painted a picture of hope and what is possible when walking with Jesus. - Cristian, Young Lives Leader

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/a-picture-of-hope/

Authenticity Was What We Needed

Elisa was our God-ordained speaker for our women's retreat. Her authenticity was perfect for our group. Her message and focus... READ MORE

2018-10-01T15:23:22+00:00

Elisa was our God-ordained speaker for our women's retreat. Her authenticity was perfect for our group. Her message and focus on Scripture were what we needed. The impact is already evident in our women, only a week later. ~ Rachel Fair, Marsh Creek Community Church

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/authenticity-was-what-we-needed/

Equipper of the Saints

Your openness and transparency is so becoming! Thank you for sharing your story and your struggles with such a pure... READ MORE

2019-03-12T16:05:30+00:00

Your openness and transparency is so becoming! Thank you for sharing your story and your struggles with such a pure motive . . . to help others! By being vulnerable, you give others permission to lay down pretenses and to get real! How liberating! You are an "equipper of the saints"! Thank you for your obedience to Him. It is clear that you, Lisa, are a letter from Christ, the result of ministry [by Godly women who invested in you], written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts. (2 Cor 3:3) - Jodi Abbinanti, Better Together Women's Conference at Three Village Church

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/equipper-of-the-saints/

Life Coaching Was a Turning Point into My Best Life

I'd been wandering, without a real sense of purpose or direction since I graduated high school. There were so many... READ MORE

2018-08-06T14:15:20+00:00

I'd been wandering, without a real sense of purpose or direction since I graduated high school. There were so many things I wanted to do with my life that I couldn't figure out how to settle on one thing. Within 3 sessions, I had taken the Highlands Battery test, narrowed down and identified my goals, and signed up for college classes. Six months later, I've moved to Denver, Colorado and I'm living the life I longed for . . . going to school, got an amazing job, building a church family. I am living my best life. I would not be here without the God-given wisdom that Elisa shared with me. Life coaching was an absolute turning point in my life, and I am daily thankful that I followed that nudge. -Margie, Denver CO

https://www.moretobe.com/testimonials/turning_point/

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