Elisa Pulliam

Elisa is the founder of More to Be, a trained life coach with an emerging speciality in trauma-focused equine-assisted coachingcoach trainer, mentor, and speaker passionate about helping women experience a fresh encounter with God and His for the sake impacting the next generation with Kingdom hope. She is the author of Meet the New You: A 21-Day Plan for Embracing Fresh Attitudes and Focused Habits Leading to Real Life Change, and Unblinded Faith: Gaining Spiritual Sight Through Believing God's Word, along with numerous books and bible studies for women and teen girls. When she's not home caring for her family, you can find Lisa horseback riding and serving on the leadership team of an equine-assisted therapy farm. She considers her first calling as wife to Stephen and mother to her four growing-up-too-fast children.

Sometimes I feel like being a Christian is so boring. Is it bad to feel that way?

Sometimes I feel like being a Christian is so boring. Is it bad to feel that way? Being a Christian doesn’t mean we are not allowed to have feelings, so please don’t be hard on yourself for questioning the status and experience of your faith. Yet, that said, how we feel about our faith has much to do with what we think about life and God, and what we make of our experiences. For example, I have a friend whose husband serves in a ministry feeding the poor on the streets, helping people change their lives, and sharing the Gospel…

How do I stop a destructive cycle?

…in other words, what if I say am I sorry to God (sincerely) — and say that I won’t do it again — but when the opportunity comes around, I do it again? And that cycle keeps happening!  What do I do? This question applies to every single person taking a breath of air this very moment! Yes, we are all call in a cycle of repeating sin, even after we sincerely ask for forgiveness from God and determine to not do it again. So if that is true, why bother trying anyways? Because it is the right thing to…

How do you change your habits and thinking?

First off, change is really possible. Second, change is hard because it takes work and time. Third, changing our behavior, permanently, often requires more than just will power; it requires a change in our thinking and the state of our heart. So, if you really want to change, I suggest you do the following: Evaluate the behaviors you want to change. Be honest by comparing them to Scripture. Pray and ask God to show you why you act the way you do and why or when those beliefs began. Take your beliefs and look to the Scriptures to find out…

What should we do when are REALLY angry? Should we tell God?

Anger is an emotion that usually rears its ugly head when an injustice is felt. Sometimes that injustice is real — like the sudden death of a loved one. Other times it is personal — like when life doesn’t go your way. Sometimes anger is the response to feeling attacked or treated unfairly. No matter what the source of the anger, it wells up inside and often seems uncontrollable. The most important thing to remember is that anger, in and of itself is not wrong. But what you do with that anger can be very wrong. God says in Ephesians…


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