Are you tired of your over-reactions to life’s everyday issues?
Have you lost hope that your marriage will ever get out of this rut?
Maybe you’re utterly spent emotionally, totally depleted of reserves, and feel like you’ll never be the wife or mama you imagined?
As I often say, “Sister, you’re not alone. There is hope.”
This latest episode on the More to Be Podcast reiterates that message for every weary woman, every triggered mama, every disheartened wife. Amber Lia, author of Marriage Triggers with her husband, Guy, and co-author of Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses, with Wendy Speake, shares such deep biblical wisdom with relevant action steps.
You’ll be encouraged to pursue God for real and lasting transformation, not only in your relationships but in yourself. Count this as your marching orders, girding you up by the power of the Holy Spirit, to face the most daunting daily struggles with fresh hope and perspective.
Counseling, through the work of the Holy Spirit, can change everything. – Elisa
Triggers don’t go away. They will happen. But you can respond differently. – Elisa
It takes a childhood to train a child. It takes a lifetime of commitment to your spouse to grow and be refined. – Amber
We have to allow the Holy Spirit to transform our attitude and outlook. – Amber
Every single trigger is an opportunity for growth and transformation. – Amber
We can’t eliminate triggers from our lives, but we can learn to respond instead of reacting. – Amber
We can be responsive and response able, instead of reactive, by taking the time to reflect at the emotions causing the behavior. – Elisa
Blessings come from obedience to the Lord. – Amber
Triggers can be blessings. They expose, like a light on an issue that still needs to be resolved. – Lisa
It is so important to be a blessing to one another by carrying each other burdens. – Amber
Anger is a secondary emotion revealing an issue below the surface. – Elisa
God calls us to not neglect meeting together . . . whatever you need to do to get help is the right thing to do. – Amber
We need to walk together in our struggles and stop the isolation caused by shame. – Elisa
It’s time to break free of the trap of shame that keeps us from seeking help for our marriages. – Elisa
What is our reaction under the state of alarm — fight, flight, freeze? It’s so important to know what we’re doing and why, without judgment about right or wrong, rather grace for moving our reactions to responses. – Elisa
God is a good, good father. He can heal our hearts. – Amber
Marriage Triggers is about giving you new ways to handle your triggers. – Amber
There are biblical ways to reframe the way we think and respond. – Amber
There is not a relationship that doesn’t need some measure of rebuilding. – Elisa
Keep going in the direction that the Lord is leading and invite Him to be a part of your everyday moments. – Amber
The moment you said “I do” to your spouse, you said yes to your match made in heaven. – Amber
Our purpose in life is to become more like Christ and loving others. – Amber
The relationship is more important than the task. – Elisa
We get to become wise. We get to be transformed. We get to watch God change our generational curses to generational blessings. – Amber
Satan has been satan a long time. He will always condemn us. But God has been God longer and He knows what He is doing. He is faithful to help us. – Amber
Give them what they don’t deserve. That’s grace. – Amber
Take a holy pause. Don’t react. Respond by the work of the Spirit. – Amber
- Ezra 5 – 8
- Ecclesiastes 7:5-14
Continue to Grow
- Marriage Triggers
- Amber Lia at MotherofKnights.com
- Gentle Parenting with Amber & Wendy
- Parenting Triggers
- Life Coach Training Course
- Encounter God: 52 Scripture Cards
- R.A.W. Scripture Study Method
- Equine-Assisted Coaching
- Biblical Mentor Training Course
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